Love and sex and loneliness, take what's yours and leave the rest.

In the month that it's been "over" (not that it was ever an official relationship, even though he wasn't seeing anyone else, nor was I, and neither of us were having an intimate relationship with other people either) ... we have e-mailed fairly regularly. Last week he asked if he could come over. I'll leave it up to your imaginations as to what he might have wanted. Last week was bad for me, so he didn't come over. He asked again this morning. I may let him. Should I feel good that he could go be intimate with anyone and yet he wants to be intimate with me? Or should I feel like I'm stupid and/or desperate for considering it?